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  • Grace, Grace, and more GRACE April 4, 2006

    Greetings in the Name of our precious Lord Jesus,

    I have learned something about communication over the past month. My therapist assigned me, homework; Yuk! The first assignment was for me to choose a topic to converse on and not change topics by chasing rabbits or getting sidetracked. This proved to be slightly more difficult than I thought. The second assignment was to monitor my skill in taking turns in a conversation. This proved even more difficult. Let me clarify. I did fine, scoring high marks, on either assignment practicing with my therapist. It was when conversations turn to real life that I began to notice problems.

    The most valuable thing I learned is that a conversation can be held with or overheard by ten different people only to be interpreted ten or more different ways. Something I already knew I think? However, I am learning to choose my words more carefully. As a family, we are learning to discern each person’s working definition of love so that we can learn how to receive that person’s love when love is being extended. Our tendency, not only for our children but for Gin and I in recent weeks, has been to evaluate the way people love by comparing that love to the love we have for those in utter ruin by sexual brokenness and devastation. My daughter asked me about a month ago, “Who will love us the way we love?” I began to teach her to learn how others love and how to receive the many ways biblical love is expressed. Then over the past two weeks I have heard the same question resounding in my head – Who will love us while we are wounded?

    It seems that human nature and selfishness have trained us to question the authenticity of people’s words. So good people, with good intentions ask hurtful questions in order to protect themselves and their interest – even Churches. When questioned with assumptions it damages the relationship sometimes beyond repair because distrust breeds distrust. When questioned with grace it may hurt but it offers a place for truth, love, and growth.

    It is difficult for me and my family to come from a county of 10,000 people to a desert of 2,000,000 souls. Do you know how many thoughts, choices, and feelings are hanging in the balance of 2,000,000 people? We have not even encountered half of one percent in this vast mesh of emotion and life choices.

    What is God doing in this adventure of trust verses distrust in our lives? I do not know as of yet. I often feel alone and betrayed. But there is one thing I have determined, my family will be a family where GRACE is in place. As I study and learn how this looks I am compelled to teach what I learn for we are not the only ones whose hearts are walking this tightrope. I know what grace looks like in the life of a homosexual discovering the freedom and the power of purity; but in the lives of my own children, my wife, even in the new me, or within the whole of my beautiful family I am not so sure. In this endeavor I covet your prayers. I am reading a book called Families Where Grace is in Place by Jeff VanVonderen. When NHE’s Devotions turn toward presenting Christ as Life in May I think I will spend a few weeks or even months sharing the truths God is teaching me. So stay tuned... it can only get better. Lord willing.



    NHE Newsletter NEW Format

    We are trying something NEW. Our future newsletter content will be available on our website at www.newheartexpressions.org in our ‘Articles and Archives’ link ten days after the newsletter is released by email. It will also be available though the web links found in the content list of each newsletter. There is a twofold goal to this madness; one, to direct traffic to our website and generate residual income for NHE’s expenses through our Internet Christian Bookstore; two, in a spirit of cooperation with the many who are interested in the content of our newsletter but do not have time to read all of it, we are listing our newsletter content with a link to a webpage that you may click through to read the content of your choosing. For those of you who are interested in reading every word it is our goal to conclude each article with a link back to the actual newsletter content links where you will then be able to continue clicking on to the next editorial or commentary to enjoy my phenomenal writing expertise. Just kidding... I know it is a little late for April Fools jokes but... I hope that you will enjoy our new format and that you will receive all we write with a heart set upon finding and experiencing GRACE every time you read! Our new format should be up and running for the May Newsletter.


    Christian Internet Bookstore

    Hey! Would you help us choose a name for our bookstore? It must be hip – it must be cool – it must be radical – it must be inviting – it must be GRACE!!! No it would not be very original to call it the Grace Bookstore. Click on the ‘contact us’ link of our site or send to ron@newheartexpressions.org and share your ideas with us... PLEASE... pretty please...

    In the days ahead our bookstore will change often because I do not know what I am doing. Please be patient as we explore and learn how to set up our pages. At www.newheartexpressions.org the current link will be Bookstore. Original isn’t it? When you click on this link you will arrive at a page that offers you POWER of Purity Resources that can only be purchased here at NHE by email when you click on the ‘contact us’ link on our menu or by phone at 303.731.4850. From this page you may click through to Christian Book Discount. When you click through you have exactly 45 minutes to make your purchase for NHE to receive our 10% commission. If you have not made your selection within that time limitation we would ask that you click back to our site at www.newheartexpressions.org and then return to Christian Book Discount through our bookstore links so that we receive credit for any purchases you make. There will be several links on our bookstore page – Exchanged Life Resources, Purity Resources, and Featured Resources as well as a link to Christian Book Discounts home page.

    Christian Book Discount offers over 200,000 Christian books, music, and gift accessories. Please do make your online Christian resource NewHeart Expressions! Tell your friends! Remember that to provide us credit so we receive our commission you would need to make your purchase within 45 minutes or return to NHE and then click through again.


    Devotional

    How are you enjoying NHE’s weekly devotions? Are our studies together introducing, encouraging, and assisting you in drawing closer to Jesus; who shares His Life with us, who expresses His Life in, through, and for us? I hope so. In this newsletter I would like to share a verse from the Old Testament that defines the Exchanged Life. The phrase exchanged life is not in the Scriptures. So where did it originate?

    The "Exchanged Life" was coined by the missionary pioneer to China, Hudson Taylor. It was used to describe the life changing experience he had while serving the Lord on the mission field. This experience has also been called the abundant life, the victorious Christian life, identification with Christ, the abiding life, the surrendered life, the crucified life etc. These same truths were taught by Watchman Nee as the Normal Christian Life.

    Devotional writers, such as Andrew Murray, A. W. Tozer, and Oswald Chambers have written many books on the paradigm of Christ as our Life; and more recently by Dr. Charles Solomon as Exchanged Life Counseling and Dr. Charles Stanley as the Spirit- filled Life.

    This Biblical concept of the "Exchanged Life" is our self life being exchanged for Christ's Life. Colossians 1:27 teaches us that "Christ in you is your hope (assurance) of glory (of daily experiencing God's presence and being like Him)".

    The Exchanged Life is an expression for the biblical truth found in Isaiah 40:31; “But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”

    Have you ever been tired; physically or emotionally exhausted? Of course, there isn’t a soul that would deny such a statement. Isaiah speaks of a profound exception to the rule. He writes that there is a place where we can experience rest and strength, a place where we simply do not get tired regardless of how tough life gets.

    I am not a Hebrew or Greek scholar but I would like to lead us on an amazing journey in Hebrew. Let me state up front once again. I am not the scholar this information is derived from. So bear with me as we walk. Let’s begin our walk with the phrase “shall renew their strength”. There are two words we need to examine in our quest for a deeper understanding. The word renew is literally translated ‘exchange’. The word strength is often seen throughout the Old Testament equivalent with life source. Together we can translate this phrase as – they shall exchange their life’s resources.

    Who? What? Why?

    This Scripture begins with a well known phrase to us all; “But those who wait upon the Lord...” The most interesting thought to this brain injured guy (me) is the word “wait”. The word wait literally is the Hebrew term for ‘rope’ meaning to braid together, wrap up in, entwine. Let’s put these two phrases together. Those who are able to exchange their strength and life resources are those who entwine themselves in Christ or according to Ron’s translation -- those who hog-tie themselves to the Lord. Another rendition could be, ‘those who intimately know and trust in Christ’ are empowered to live life out of Christ’s strength and resources.

    What is the result for one who wraps themselves intimately in the Lord and exchanges their inadequacies, resources, self-worth, or values for the One who shares His worth, power, and resources with us? The adventure, the all consuming joy is that Christ expresses His life in and through us – even for us! We exchange our exhaustion for His strength and we get to ride on eagles wings and never grow weary or tired; in other words we never run out of steam for all that God intends us to accomplish for it is actually Christ who accomplishes life for us.

    When? Now! When you and I live surrendered to the Lord He expresses His Life in, through, and for us. Praise God!

    The Lord really convicted me of this recently. I was growing weary as a husband and a parent. My family is constantly telling me that the accident changed me. Granted, they are right. I just do not see the extent of the changes as they describe them. Nevertheless, I was growing weary and finding myself tired and exhausted, unable to carry on. Then I began to hear a voice that I have come to recognize as God’s voice calling me to stop trying to do His job and rest. In other words, I was trying to make my children obey, do their chores, respect their mother and other elders. The more I tried to enforce the rules the more I failed. Then the sweet Spirit spoke ever so softly through a book I was reading you can’t make your children be a Christian or even act like Christians. “You can’t make them obey or be respectful. You do not have the skill or the power to make them carry out their chores. That is My job! Your job is not to enforce my laws but to empower your wife and each of your children to carry them out. If you will do your job and watch Me do Mine you will no longer be tired, over extended, or exhausted. You will be blessed as I accomplish all I intend in the lives of your family.” By the way, the Lord reminded me that this is how I already live in relation to purity and how I teach freedom to others; He then spoke a little louder with an instructive voice and said, “empower others to live out of Grace for life, freedom, and purity in much the same manner you are learning with your family”.

    Grace is what God is doing that you or I can never accomplish. It is my job to empower you to experience what God is doing instead of trying to control you. Living in grace is not about enforcement rather grace is about empowerment.

    “They that rope Jesus and wrap up in Him will exchange their own strength and resources for His Life; they shall soar on eagle’s wings and never fatigue or collapse from pure exhaustion!” (Isaiah 40:31 Ron’s paraphrase)


    Canadian Tour Canceled

    We were supposed to travel for two weeks in May back to Alberta Canada. The Lord has seen fit to close this door so we will not be going to Canada this spring. The Canadian Christian School that we have a relationship with has extended an invitation for late Fall. The details are not yet set in stone so we trust the Lord with any travel plans, especially over the next year. I have learned that when God closes one door He intends to open another. Many times it isn’t just a door it is a gate with a flood behind it. Gin and I are excited to see what God has prepared for us this spring.


    Changes in NHE Discipleship and Mentoring

    It is an exciting if not stressful time. I believe God enjoys stressing me out. He seems to enjoy making me sweat. Now that would contradict everything I just wrote from Isaiah 40:31 wouldn’t it? It is a constant choice I must make to exchange this stressful excitement for His excitement that empowers and invigorates grace to work out what He is working deeply within.

    God is a plentiful Provider! He has opened a flood gate of ministry right here in Denver/Aurora and another ministry has made know their willingness to help us reconstruct NHE. There are several areas of ministry that have been placed before us.

    First, the creation of internet support groups to empower Christians to live out of an exchanged life with Christ. We desire to empower men, women, teens and families to encounter Christ’s Life and GRACE through interactive Bible study and accountability to discover the powerful life of purity, and for those with any addictive struggle but specifically those wrestling with sexual wounds or brokenness to find real and lasting freedom.

    Second, we are investigating how we can offer support to those struggling with homosexuality or same sexed attraction in the surrounding areas one to two hours drive from Denver. We are also interested in the Wyoming area.

    Third, here in the Denver area we are being asked to help several organizations who are in combat against teen suicide. These teens are choosing a fatal escape and the prime culprit is same sexed attraction. So we are looking unto God as to if and how we should be of help.

    There is a new twist it seems for NHE. We are being confronted not only personally but as a ministry with family stresses and issues. I am excited to see what God will do as I learn how grace works into place in my own family and how to share that grace and the Exchanged Life truths with families whom God brings across our paths.

    These are doors all ajar. Pray with us as we walk forward rebuilding this ministry looking to see which doors God would have us open and walk through.


    More than Recovery: Internet Support Groups in Development

    I am excited to announce the development of telephonic and internet support groups which we call More than Recovery. NHE is offering the following four support groups:

    1. Foundations
    2. Shadows
    3. Expressions
    4. Leadership and the Philippians 3:10 Team.

    Foundations will launch May 1, 2006. NHE will release the details for how to access this group by email only after Pastor Ron has approved your personal enrollment. Please, contact Pastor Ron at ron@newheartexpressions.org or 303.731.4850. Each month we will open enrollment for the following support group. These support groups MUST be joined in order and each group leader must release you to the next group. More than Recovery is FREE!

    Ron is spending time talking with potential group leaders during the month of April and will continue this process until each leader has one to three groups meeting each week. If you are interested in being equipped and leading a More than Recovery Support Group please contact Pastor Ron at 303.731.4850 or ron@newheartexpressions.org.

    Membership Enrollment Allowance:

    • Foundations: 21 attendees
    • Shadows: 14 attendees
    • Expressions: 7 attendees
    • Leadership: not restricted
    • PHIL 3:10 Team: 7 members for each team


    The Browning Saga

    The drama continues. Yes! God is good and I have quite a bit to share about our medical, rehab, and the stresses that accompany. Let me begin with a quick snapshot of where the Lord is taking me. As you will see I just don’t know. I completed cognitive and physical therapy on March 31st. My cognitive therapist recommends I return to work as of May 1st at 20 hours a week, increasing the hours by 10 each month as I am able to handle it. The doctor, however, is considering another recommendation along with this one and that is for me to enter vocational rehab instead. The primary reason is to find the lost memories for accounting work, teaching music, and people skills and if these can not be regained or relearned to receive new training. The therapist states that the memories are there but buried and I will have to do specific things to jar those lost memories loose to be able to recall that information. But no one knows what those specific things are. Everyone is shooting in the dark with this. We will find out what the doctors instructions are on April 12th. For now everything is on hold so I spend my days writing devotionals, e-newsletters, mentoring by email, IM, or telephone, along with all the family responsibilities of rehab, doctors, home schooling, my job of the family laundry, and most importantly putting grace in place so that we grow in Christ and truth... really so that the family can all live with me and not go insane.

    Let me move on by sharing about Ginger’s wonderful month. Don’t tell her I said wonderful. She might hit me and she is a lot stronger than I since the accident. So are the kids. Even my three year old boy can beat me up. Thank God he doesn’t know it. I don’t think...

    Ginger graduated from her wheelchair to a walker and crutches on March 20th. She is still in the chair half the time but as her strength increases she will be able to walk more and more. Gin’s physical therapist had her fitted for a leg brace and with the brace Gin can walk. We are all rejoicing and going for slow walks with mom.

    Ginger saw a traumatic bone specialist this past month and one more bone is fused leaving one broken and left to mend. The doctor is now addressing Gin’s shoulder and knee issues which will require surgery to rebuild but we are unsure as to when.

    For the month of April Gin’s therapy has been moved to Monday and Friday afternoons to spread things out a little more so that she does not fatigue as easily. Gin really has asked me to share with you a request. Please pray as Gin strengthens in body and soul. Ginger dreams of the time she can live again. Right now she feels as though she is surviving; she wants to live!

    As for her medical state the paralysis is permanent unless God intervenes with His healing touch. Ginger is now at the tasks of learning how to compensate for the paralysis and the pain levels and how to walk with her brace. She is hoping to graduate within 6 months to a cane. Medication still needs to be tweaked because she does not want to live on narcotics for the rest of her days here on earth. We are researching and really appreciate all your input in this study.

    As Ginger’s husband I know that she needs friends to really come alongside her for the long-haul; to run this marathon arm in arm with her. So many times she is alone and could really use your encouragement. An email or a call is never intrusive but is always welcome. Yes, my wife knows how to talk so you will have to tell her how long you have upfront and then start telling her goodbye 15 minutes before you have to be off the phone. You know my wife’s initials are G.A.B. When we married someone said how do you two get any rest because neither of you ever stop talking. Someone else took a step further and yelled would the two of you stop arguing! We looked at each other because we did not know we were arguing we thought we were discussing all the options... just talking it out. Ever since that day we argue. You never know what words will do in the lives of others. Gin and I are best friends and have been for 9 years on April 1st. Yes, I am letting you in on a well kept UNsecret – our wedding anniversary was on April 1st. God has been good and kept us through the hard times only to enjoy Him and the good times. Hallelujah!!!

    All the kids are doing the same except for one bit of news. Bruce is to have surgery to remove all the hardware in his right leg and ankle. It seems that he is having infections as a result of his leg rejecting the stainless steel expandable bars. So they are going to remove them in the next few months. They will not remove the metal in his left arm. The doctor said that removal would be more difficult then placing it there in the first place. It just so happens, Bruce’s femur held together by the rods in his right leg has healed 100% so he does not even need the rod or the pin. God is AWESOME!!! Rejoice my friends... we are!!! Sing a song of gladness... Shout praise!!! For our more reserved friends just quietly speak forth the word, “Amen!”

    The Browning Saga continues with good news, sometimes bad news, but always of God’s amazing GRACE!!!

    A Friend Called
    Sunday evening a friend called and the Lord privileged us to speak of God’s ever increasing grace in both our lives. It had been a few months since we talked last. It was good to hear from him and share. It was good to hear of what the Lord is doing in His life. Many of you may remember Ezra. He served NHE last year as our Financial Review Officer and as a friend he flew into Wyoming and held Ginger’s hand while I was in coma. He has been and remains a dear friend. Our children miss him greatly and are looking forward to seeing him as the Lord brings him for a visit sometime. Ezra continues to serve the Lord with gladness and calls from time to time to see how we are doing and let us know what God is doing in his life.
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